It’s the day you’ve been dreaming of – the flowers have bloomed, the decor is perfect, you’re surrounded by your loved ones, and ready to say “I do”. But what happens if rain decides to make an appearance, which isn’t exactly a far fetched idea in the UK, no matter the season? You can’t control the weather, but you can certainly plan for a rainy wedding, and having a wet weather backup Plan B can give you peace of mind and save the day.
Symbolism of Rain & Weddings
While some may view rain as an unwelcome guest, many cultures and traditions see it as a sign of good luck and blessings.
In Italy, there’s a saying, ‘Sposa bagnata, sposa fortunata,’ meaning ‘wet bride, lucky bride’, alluding to the view they have that rain on a wedding day is a sign of good luck and good fortune.
In Hindu belief, rain is symbolic of a strong, unbreakable bond, as untying a wet knot is more difficult than a dry one.
Some cultures believe that rain cleanses the couple of any past negativity, allowing them to start their new journey with a fresh slate.
Many traditions associate rain with fertility and prosperity, setting the stage for a fruitful marriage.
Undoubtably rain brings with it a sense of romance and drama – perfect for a day that’s all about love and commitment. Walking hand in hand, in the rain, can become one of your most cherished memories.
So rain on a wedding day can be less about luck and more about perspective.
Preparing for the Possibility
The first step to ensuring rain doesn’t ruin your day is to be prepared. Work closely and take advise from your wedding planner or venue coordinator for contingency plans for a rainy wedding. They will be used to wedding planning for rain.
Practicalities Checklist
Some practical measures to take include:
- Waterproof makeup and hair products for the bridal party
- Aisle runners that cope well with wet conditions to prevent slips and falls
- Arrange for drying off wet clothing and warming up
- If you’re marrying at a time of year when rain is more likely, consider the weather when choosing your dress and footwear
Prepare the Wedding Party
Ensure that everyone involved especially in the bridal party is aware of the plan in case of inclement weather. Make sure they know when they should change into wellies, where umbrellas, blankets, drying stations can be found, and how to handle guests to keep the mood light and happy.
Raining Essentials
To ensure that you and your guests are prepared for a rainy day, have essentials on hand such as:
- Clear umbrellas: Not only practical but also aesthetically pleasing in photos.
- Wellies: Keep a few pairs of wellies on hand for you and your bridal party if necessary.
- Towels: Have absorbent towels available for your guests or to dry off surfaces.
- Hair dryers: In case you need to touch up your hairstyle after a drizzle.
- Heel protectors: Prevent your wedding shoes from sinking into the ground.
Outdoor Ceremony Alternatives
If you’re planning an outdoor wedding or outdoor ceremony, have a backup option in case of rain. Many venues offer indoor spaces too or the option to rent a tent, providing a dry and comfortable environment for your celebration. A tent particularly can be a fantastic solution, especially one with clear sides, as they allow you to enjoy the outdoors while staying protected from the elements.
Embracing the Rain
While it’s good to have a rain plan in place, it’s also important to embrace the rain and find joy in the unexpected. After all, your wedding day is about celebrating your love and the beginning of your new journey together, the ups and the downs. And you won’t get to see a rainbow without rain.
Unique Photography Opportunities
Rain can add a magical touch to your wedding photography. The soft lighting, reflective surfaces, and the romantic ambience of sharing an umbrella with your beloved.
Photographers often relish the opportunity to capture these unique moodier moments that rain provides.
Incorporate Rain into Your Décor
If rain is in the forecast, consider incorporating it into your wedding décor. For example, you could provide cute rain boots for your guests to wear, or use rain drop crystals in decor pieces.
For an outdoor ceremony you could decorate the area with multi-coloured umbrellas above the ceremony space. This not only adds a whimsical touch to your celebration but also serves a practical purpose. And you could even create your own wedding cocktail based on a rain theme.
Celebrate the Atmosphere
Rain can create a cosy, intimate atmosphere that adds to the romance of your wedding day. The sound of raindrops gently tapping on the ground or the roof can be incredibly soothing and create a sense of togetherness as you and your guests gather to celebrate your love.
Tips for Your Wedding Party & Guests
While you and your partner are the stars of the show, it’s essential to ensure that your friends and family are taken care of by planning for their comfort with regard to all weather conditions.
Communicate the Plan
Keep your wedding party and guests informed about your rain plan. Use your wedding website or a dedicated messaging platform to share updates and instructions on how to dress and prepare for potential rain. Clear communication will help everyone feel ready to embrace whatever the weather brings.
Easy access to indoor facilities
- Clear signage directing guests to shelter
- Providing comforts like throw blankets or heaters for chilly moments
- Provide rain gear such as clear umbrellas or rain ponchos to keep guests comfortable as well as bringing a bit of fun to your celebration.
Keep Spirits High
Encourage your wedding party and guests to maintain a positive attitude and embrace the rain as part of the unique experience of your wedding day. Their enthusiasm and support can go a long way in creating a joyful and memorable celebration, regardless of the weather.
Stay cheerful with these tips
- Focus on the significance of the day, not the skies
- Laugh it off and make it part of the memory
- Trust in your planning and the professionalism of your vendors
Personal Insights
“On our wedding day when it started raining, I was a bit upset, but one of the bridesmaids got a bottle of champagne, and there was so much excitement and laughter that in no time the situation was embraced and we were having a great time. There were a few breaks from the rain, and we dashed out to do the photographs then, and because of the rain the whole atmosphere was gorgeous – everything felt fresh and new and soft. The photographs turned out great, and the weather became part of our story and experience. It was a great day!”
Chris & Donna, who embraced their rainy wedding day
“Ultimately, the love that united you and which you move forward with is meant to withstand even the toughest challenges. If you both maintain a positive happy outlook, your wedding party, family, and guests will follow suit and match that energy for a fabulous day.”
Anne, an experienced wedding planner
Final Thoughts for a Rainy Wedding
While rain on your wedding day may seem like a disappointment at first, it can be an opportunity to create truly unique and unforgettable moments. With good preparation, resilience and optimism, embracing the rain and maintaining a positive attitude, you and your guests can turn a potential setback into a beautiful, joyful celebration of love. Remember, the rain can be a symbol of blessings, prosperity, and a strong bond – the perfect omens to start your new journey together.
